Can you claim the position of “expert” or “authority” in your work as a therapist? If not, I’m not surprised. Most of us don’t feel confident enough to call ourselves an “expert.” See if this quote from Robert Bly’s book Become a Recognized Authority surprises you:
“The world is filled with clinical researchers, family counselors, and psychotherapists, but ask people to name a sex expert, and 99 out of 100 will answer without hesitation, Dr. Ruth Westheimer.”
Would that be your answer?
Before I became a therapist, I would have been in there along with the herd naming Dr. Ruth. Today, Dr. Ruth would not be my answer. She probably isn’t your answer either. I’d be willing to bet that you and I respond differently than the general public because we’re in the mental health field and know of other professionals in the area of sex therapy whose work we respect.
This brings us to an important point: The opinion people hold regarding someone’s status as “guru,”"expert,” or “authority” varies greatly according to their familiarity with the subject matter.
Undoubtedly there are plenty of highly qualified sex therapists; Dr. Ruth is not the best. The fact that Dr. Ruth is so well-known is a tribute to her tireless self-promotion, significant publicity, and learning through experience. She jumped into the game with both feet.
You may not aspire to becoming a syndicated radio show host or a highly public figure, but how about a recognized expert in your community? How about “go-to guy” or “go-to girl”?
Here are three steps you can take to ensure go-to person status:
But, could I really reach local expert status? Even in my community there are people who know more than I do!
If you are really excited about your new niche, then that is great energy to ride. Don’t be easily intimidated. Use your passion to study and learn everything you can. No one knows everything at the get go. We’re all learning. If you can attract the right clients (through smart marketing), you are well on your way.
But, I don’t want to give up doing other work I love!
When I teach therapists about the importance of niche marketing, many are concerned that the niche work will be the only clients and problems they work with. That will never be the case (even with the strongest niche marketing) because these clients will have other problems they need help with and will refer people to you who have other types of problems.
By marketing your niche, you are not limiting what you can do in your office. You can still do whatever other work you want—that is, until you become too busy to take on anything but your very top priority.
Summary
Remember, you can become the expert people come to for a particular type of problem or need if you can identify a good niche for yourself (that has potential) and draw in clients through smart marketing. With every client, your experience and expertise grow, bringing confidence with it. You don’t have to be nationally known to be an expert; you can be an expert in your own community.


